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It is understandable that at times, most of us are paranoid and we believe the whole world is against us (well, I know I do). The same goes for relationship where at times, we are inclined or led to believe that our partner is cheating on us. However, instead of being paranoid when it comes to infidelity, there are some more definitive signs to determine whether your partner is cheating on you and these signs would provide you early warnings to sort out this issue before it all goes haywire.

One of the first hints that your partner is cheating on you is whether you feel different about your partner. Is there a change in behavioural pattern in your partner? Some changes are subtle whereas some changes are more obvious. For example, your partner could be paying more attention to the attires or themselves more often, by making sure they look good all the time where before that, your partner seldom pays attention to these issues. Other than that, could your partner be wearing a perfume or cologne where previously they wouldn’t? Despite how people tend to hide these issues, subtle signs still show up every now and then because it’s simply impossible to hide all these (this is true where although both of you are at either end of the phone, you can still “feel” it if the person on the other side is smiling or having a bad day).

Secondly, an early sign of infidelity involves secrecy and an increasing demand of privacy. If your partner is indeed cheating on you, your partner may be having a few mysterious behaviour such as arriving late at home, turning off the mobile without any apparent reason, delete text messages or call records, hidden phone bills, hidden credit card bill and many more. These are but some of the more obvious secrets your partner are trying to hide (it’s not secret anymore when you know about it though).

Notice if there are any emotional changes in your partner. Sometimes, if you notice that if not under the influence of external factors such as work, fatigue etc and if you partner is acting coldly towards you or if your partner is getting impatient with you, there could be some truth behind these behaviours. Perhaps there is something your partner is dissatisfied with you or perhaps, your partner is longing to be at another place instead of being with you.

Sometimes, inconsistency could be another hint to determine whether your partner is potentially cheating on you. These inconsistencies describe things similar to a bump in a straight line. Your partner could be telling your one reason for working late whilst another reason for the next minute or alternatively, your partner could tell you that they are working late but one of your friends saw your partner loitering around at another location. These inconsistencies could lead towards more decisive evidence determining whether your partner is cheating on you.

Lastly as I have mentioned earlier, most of the times we are just being paranoid and insecure towards all of our surroundings including our partner. Therefore, a little trust and a lot of communication go a long way. A lot of times, a proper discussion with your partner would solve most of these issues and I must stress again that communication is vital for a long lasting relationship.

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