http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com My Words and Rants on Surviving Infidelity & Detecting Signs of Infidelity Wed, 16 Jul 2008 09:06:06 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Today, it seems that the majority of unfaithful spouses are men. As a result, there are many resources to help women cope with these kinds of marital issues. At the same time, it's still important to consider what's best for you and your unique situation. In some ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/a-womans-guide-to-dealing-with-infidelity/ Today, a number of psychologists, psychiatrists, and therapists dedicate their entire practice to marriage counseling. In many cases, these health care professionals can help you resolve your differences, as well as work through the emotional trauma of finding out your spouse has committed adultery. 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Will you want to remain in contact ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/making-a-new-life-for-yourself-after-infidelity/ In this day of everyone jumping into bed with everyone else it is quite easy to get paranoid about infidelity warning signs but one thing you have to remember is that not everyone is guilty of having an affair. There are many seemingly obvious infidelity warning signs that are genuine actions ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/infidelity-warning-signs-or-a-red-herring/ Divorce is never easy – even if you’re parting on amicable terms, it’s hard not to feel depressed or emotionally distressed. These feelings are perfectly normal. When you end a marriage, you’re breaking the commitment you made to love and honor your partner for the rest of your ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/staying-positive-during-a-divorce/ If you have any reason to think that your marriage may be ending, it's time to start taking precautions to protect your finances. 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Although we all feel that little green monster rise ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/jealousy-%e2%80%93-fighting-off-that-little-green-monster/ Losing a relationship can be gut-wrenching -- the emotional pain is some of the most difficult feelings people experience in their lives. It takes time - break-ups are a small death. The death of what you once saw as your future. Just like when loved-one passes away, we grieve when ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/help-with-getting-over-a-break-up/ Answers to many questions you may have: "Why am i such a horrible person?" I feel like we need to start with this question because it is the most serious: a question of one's own character. The truth is, you are NOT a horrible ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/faq-for-those-that-commit-infidelity/ "Before I met my husband, I'd never fallen in love, though I'd stepped in it a few times." --Rita Rudner So you think that the person you just broke up with is the only one who could ever understand you - the person you were meant to be with forever ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/getting-over-past-relationships/ After 25 years of marriage, my father had an affair with a woman he met in China and, in a hurricane of lies, left my mother. At a local bar, a man leans over and tells me "I would totally bang you if I were single." I slap him on ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/dont-lose-faith-in-relationships-because-of-infidelity/ It’s probably not unreasonable to assume that most people whose partners have broken a contract of monogamy regard their partner, or at the very least their partner’s actions as something not too unlike the word “malicious”. In reality, people rarely break these contracts (read: “cheat”) for the purpose of malice. ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/why-people-dont-tell-their-partner-before-they-cheat/ Here's a compilation of resources I've found on the Internet that are helpful for anyone dealing with infidelity or is going through a divorce. Cheating Wife/Cheating Husband Signs: This website has about a dozen or so articles on how to catch a cheating spouse (or boyfriend/girlfriend). It also gives tips on ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/useful-web-resources-about-infidelitydivorce/ Infidelity doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage. Recent studies have shown that around 45% of married women and 60% of married men are unfaithful at some point during their relationship. Infidelity can range from a one night drunken mistake to a planned and calculated affair. And is ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/saving-your-marriage-from-infidelity/ What a horrible chain of events. Infidelity does happen in relationships. The person you love and trusted has betrayed your trust. Your emotions are shattered. Many relationships have gone through this rocky road. Horrible chain of events. Infidelity does happen in relationships. The person you love and trusted has betrayed ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/keys-to-recovering-from-infidelity/ Certain things about signs of infidelity come as a surprise to most people. Even people who pride themselves on being knowledgeable about extramarital affairs may be unfamiliar with the little-known facts below. This information is taken from Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs. http://www.Is-He-Cheating-On-You.com 1. Telltale signs first ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/10-things-you-probably-didnt-know-about-signs-of-infidelity/ If you’re worried that your relationship is heading down a path that might lead to your partner cheating on you, bear in mind some of these valuable tips for keeping the “spark” in your relationship: Communicate Sure, this is dime-a-dozen advice, but simple truth is that the healthiest relationships are the ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/tips-for-avoiding-infidelity/ Regarding infidelity, the major difference between men and women is that men cheat for sexual reasons and women cheat for emotional reasons. Of course, there are exceptions to this, but women are less likely to cheat because they “needed to get laid.” For women, sex is an emotional ordeal. When ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/why-women-cheat/ Marriage, as romantic as the Hollywood movies put it or as sentimental as novelist tries to put it, a marriage is still nothing but a witness to the love between two individuals. The misconception sometimes people have is that, marriage will stop us from being unfaithful and marriage will ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/marriage-infidelity-sign/ When you have gathered a reasonable amount of doubts whether to believe your husband is cheating on you or otherwise, it may be time to take some active measures to gather the final piece of puzzle to decide whether is this your worse nightmare. The main reason of getting ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/how-to-catch-a-cheating-husband/ With many helpful articles spread throughout the internet, there are a lot of helpful advices available when it comes to the victim side of dealing with an extramarital affair. However on the other hand, there isn’t much articles (if there is, my apologies) dealing with the person involved in ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/recovering-from-an-extramarital-affair/ In a marriage, most people (me included) would have the impression that the party cheating on the other half would always be men and women being the victim. However to some people’ surprise, this is actually not true. Despite what we think (or imagine) about woman, they are ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/free-cheating-wife-story/ It is understandable that at times, most of us are paranoid and we believe the whole world is against us (well, I know I do). The same goes for relationship where at times, we are inclined or led to believe that our partner is cheating on us. However, ... http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com/sign-of-infidelity/ After you caught your partner cheating on you, you would probably be asking this question – Can I forgive my partner? 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