My wife once had an affair. I suspected that something was going on, but for months, whenever I confronted her, she said they were “only friends”. They met more than once a week and I kept asking her to end that relationship. Finally, she did that but she soon went back to seeing him and that lasted for a whole year.
After breaking that relationship for good, she admitted that she slept with that man once. Although I had already suspected that, it still hurt to hear it. I was shocked and terribly hurt, and I have to admit that I am still trying to deal with her infidelity.
She, moreover, admitted that she had a relationship with another colleague of her years ago, and although it was not physical, it was intimate enough.
I know that she still meets other men alone in her work; it is part of her job. Yet my problem is that I do not trust her anymore and I keep thinking of what might be happening in those meetings.
My wife is a terrible “flirt” who gives the impression of being “available” but she is not a bad person. We went to counseling and that helped us a lot to save our marriage.
Yet, I can never stop thinking if a once-unfaithful spouse can be faithful later. I do not know… I do not know.
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