“Before I met my husband, I’d never fallen in love, though I’d stepped in it a few times.” –Rita Rudner

So you think that the person you just broke up with is the only one who could ever understand you - the person you were meant to be with forever and ever and now you will never have another chance. Give yourself 2 months to mope, 4 months to party, and 6 months from now you’ll most likely have met the next love of your life. (Read the rest of this post)

Three Surefire Signs Your Partner is cheating Find out for sure if your partner is being faithful

After 25 years of marriage, my father had an affair with a woman he met in China and, in a hurricane of lies, left my mother.

At a local bar, a man leans over and tells me “I would totally bang you if I were single.” I slap him on the back, say “Thanks!” and walk away.

Seeing so many men behave like this, I started to believe that all men care about is sex. I began to lose faith in men and actually considered “using sex as an icebreaker,” as Eliott once said on Scrubs. (Read the rest of this post)

It’s probably not unreasonable to assume that most people whose partners have broken a contract of monogamy regard their partner, or at the very least their partner’s actions as something not too unlike the word “malicious”. In reality, people rarely break these contracts (read: “cheat”) for the purpose of malice. We like to think that they do, because it places us in a position of superiority. “My partner did that awful thing because s/he is a malicious beast who wanted to hurt me.” People don’t hurt people they look down upon. They hurt people they regard as superior as a way of bringing themselves to that person’s level (by the way, this method has never worked). So in regarding our cheating partner as “malicious”, we are trying to suggest that they regard us as superior. They don’t, and we’re not. (Read the rest of this post)