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There is considerable debate and confusion about what constitutes an affair in cyberspace. Because of the lack of physical presence and /or contact, many have dismissed the concept of extra-marital internet relationships as affairs. However, I strongly believe this is not the case. Cyber-affairs are a rapidly growing threat to marital relationships and need to be recognized and addressed by those who are headed down that slippery slope.
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Learn from these real life extramarital affair coaching scenarios.

In the first section the person struggling with the marital infidelity summarizes the scenario or concern and what he/she would like to say to his/her cheating spouse.
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Addiction to pornography is very similar to the addiction to drugs or alcohol; they are all progressive maladies that eat up its addict’s personal life and need to be treated.

If your husband is addicted to pornography, then he is actually escaping from the real world to a fantasy one. If this is not managed, it will get out of control.

The first step towards treating this addiction is making him understand the calamities of it and how much damage it causes, not only to him but also to his family. Therapy can be a good solution that would enable both him and you to discover the reason behind his addiction and whether it is related to sexuality or not.

Like with most addicts, it might prove a bit difficult to convince your husband to pursue therapy. However, what you should do is be gentle and persuasive without criticizing or threatening him. You can try to explain to him that his addiction to porn makes you lonely and unhappy. You should also say that this kind of addiction is quite common these days and, therefore, easily treatable.

You should only resort to threatening when he refuses to go to therapy, for you will have to make it clear that you will not be able to go on in such a relationship where your self-esteem is constantly hurt. Try to get support from others and even go to counseling yourself to convince him. Just take action, the sooner the better.